Finding the right goal to pursuit

Finding the right goal to pursuit    

                                                                                                                     "Fake it until you make it."

Your goal is your desire. When you achieve your desire, then you realize the thing you want is not actually the thing you like, therefore you waste time on the thing you don't like and will spend more time finding you want.

So how to know the thing you desire is actually the thing you like?

Let's take an example. 

You want to live in Hanoi for 10 years. Now when you move to Hanoi for half a year, you realize you don't actually fit the environment much, but you already have to commit with it. So how not to make the same mistake again? 

 → Experiment it 

Try to live there for half a year and see if the place comfortable for you. If yes, then live. If no, find new place.

→ You have to test your desire, experiment with it for short period of time.

*Tip: Use SMART method to set out the path to your Desire

 

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